Sorry, my Thai isn’t very good, so I’ll write in English and hope the Thai community can understand. I’m married to a Thai woman, and she often gets angry with me and starts arguments.
This time the fight was about a Toyota Yaris GR. I wanted to buy a car for myself with my own money. The Yaris Hybrid has two variants: the Premium and the GR (the sportier one). The installment difference is only about 500 baht per month over 7 years.
I have to travel from Rayong to Bangkok three times a week for work, so I wanted the GR. But she was adamant that I should get the Premium, not the GR. When I stood my ground and said I wanted the GR, she completely lost it—stopped talking to me, threatened divorce, and started saying things like, “I’ll do whatever I want,” and acting extreme, going out, etc.
She even brought up things from years ago, like the PS5 I bought for myself 3 years back and an iPad I bought 2 years ago—saying I waste money, blah blah. I earn around 70–100k baht per month, which is decent. We also have a lovely daughter together. And to add, my wife has her own business too.
On these bases she says i am a shit husband because i selected the GR

i dont go out on weekends i play video games at home i dont drink i dont have any female friends (just wanted to add these things in the end )
I’m looking for advice from the community.
I am confused
This time the fight was about a Toyota Yaris GR. I wanted to buy a car for myself with my own money. The Yaris Hybrid has two variants: the Premium and the GR (the sportier one). The installment difference is only about 500 baht per month over 7 years.
I have to travel from Rayong to Bangkok three times a week for work, so I wanted the GR. But she was adamant that I should get the Premium, not the GR. When I stood my ground and said I wanted the GR, she completely lost it—stopped talking to me, threatened divorce, and started saying things like, “I’ll do whatever I want,” and acting extreme, going out, etc.
She even brought up things from years ago, like the PS5 I bought for myself 3 years back and an iPad I bought 2 years ago—saying I waste money, blah blah. I earn around 70–100k baht per month, which is decent. We also have a lovely daughter together. And to add, my wife has her own business too.
On these bases she says i am a shit husband because i selected the GR
I’m looking for advice from the community.