My husband and I are going to thailand for our honeymoon. Since we have kids we never have time together alone at all. Always busy with taking care of the kids and responsibility. This year we will be together for 7 years so we decided to go on honeymoon and try to bring back our passion and fun.
I was so excited since we decided to go and plan the trip. But now when the time for holiday is come and we are leaving the kids tomorrow I feel so empty and blue. I dont know why? I am not worry about the kids they are 5 and 2 years old and I know that the grandparent will take a good care of them, I am not worry about anything but why I feel so blue and not happy and excited as I should be?
what is wrong with me? I know that I will miss the kids so much and i already started to miss them. Or this could be the reason why am I feeling like this?
well yesterday I text my husband while he was at work saying that " we never spending time together without the kids for so long and I am not sure how can I be the normal young couple again not a wife or a mother that always carry on responsibility" (as we agree to be just a young couple and travel together not a married couple and hope that will spice thing up)
Basically deep down I am afraid that we will have too much time together and he will get overwhelming which is happen with him all the time" when I have to take care of the kids I can focus on the kids and that can help me to take my mind of my husband when he is being difficult but this time will be no kids how well I will cope with his tantrum. May be this is why I am feeling so blue.
anyone ever have this experience or any point of view to share please?
have you ever go on holiday with your husband and leave the kids at home?
I was so excited since we decided to go and plan the trip. But now when the time for holiday is come and we are leaving the kids tomorrow I feel so empty and blue. I dont know why? I am not worry about the kids they are 5 and 2 years old and I know that the grandparent will take a good care of them, I am not worry about anything but why I feel so blue and not happy and excited as I should be?
what is wrong with me? I know that I will miss the kids so much and i already started to miss them. Or this could be the reason why am I feeling like this?
well yesterday I text my husband while he was at work saying that " we never spending time together without the kids for so long and I am not sure how can I be the normal young couple again not a wife or a mother that always carry on responsibility" (as we agree to be just a young couple and travel together not a married couple and hope that will spice thing up)
Basically deep down I am afraid that we will have too much time together and he will get overwhelming which is happen with him all the time" when I have to take care of the kids I can focus on the kids and that can help me to take my mind of my husband when he is being difficult but this time will be no kids how well I will cope with his tantrum. May be this is why I am feeling so blue.
anyone ever have this experience or any point of view to share please?